这样才算真正的婚姻
<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><FONT color=#333333>一个姑娘和一个汉子成了家，姑娘的口味清淡，汉子无辣不欢。</FONT></SPAN> <BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> 姑娘常去父母家蹭饭吃。一天，姑娘的父亲做的菜咸了些，母亲一声不响拿来水杯，夹了一筷子菜，将菜在清水里荡一下后再入口。忽然，姑娘从母亲细微的动作里领悟到了什么。 </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> 第二天，姑娘在家做了丈夫爱吃的菜。当然，每一个菜里都放辣椒。只是，她的面前多了一杯清水。汉子看着她津津有味的吃着清水里荡过的菜，眼睛里有轻微的湿润。 </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> 之后，丈夫也争着做菜。但是菜里面已经找不到辣椒了。只是他的面前多了一碟辣酱。菜在辣酱里蘸一下。每一口，他都吃的心满意足。 </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> 为了爱，也为了自己，他们一个坚守着一碟辣酱，一个坚守着一杯清水。他们更懂得怎样坚守一份天长地久，细水长流的爱。 </SPAN> <BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> </SPAN> <BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> 爱，一定需要相濡以沫的支持和理解。 </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> 有一次，我和几位朋友到江西，晚上住在宾馆，刚刚睡下，突然下起了雷雨。朋友披衣起床，自言自语：“不知杭州下没下雨？” </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> 我说：“不会吧。” </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> 朋友叹口气，说：“我老婆特别怕雷，只要雷雨天，她肯定失眠。” </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> 朋友的电话打通后，我听他在说：“杭州有没有下雨？”接着，朋友说：“那就早点睡，别看那些婆婆妈妈的电视连续剧。” </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> 他合上手机，对我说：“杭州没下雨。” </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> 前前后后，通话时间不到一分钟。 </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> 比起恋爱时期的“电话粥”，几十秒的通话时间真是太短了，但是，这几十秒钟，隽永如斯。 </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> 婚姻到最后究竟留下什么？有平平安安的日子，有相扶相助的情感，那是婚姻的大境界。 </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> 婚姻不只是嫁一个男人或娶一个女人那么简单，它有三重境界。 </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> 第一重境界：和一个自己所爱的人结婚。 </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> 第二重境界：和一个自己所爱的人及他（她）的习惯结婚。 </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> 第三个境界：和一个自己所爱的人及他（她）的习惯，还有他的背景结婚。 </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> 处在第一境界的夫妻，婚姻相对稳固。处在第二境界的夫妻，婚姻比较稳定。处在第三境界的夫妻，很少见到有离婚的。 </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> 在这个世界上，那些白头偕老的人，一生基本上都结三次婚。 </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> 第一次是在饭店里，在亲朋好友的恭喜和祝福中，与一个自己所爱的人结婚。 </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> 第二次是在家里，两人经过几年磨合，互与对方的习惯结婚。 </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> 第三次是在家族里，与对方的各类的亲情结婚。 </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> 第二次和第三次结婚与第一次相比，有很多的不同。没有隆重的婚礼，也没有亲朋好友来祝贺，唯一在场的是双方的默契。 </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> 真正的婚姻，往往都是发生在最后的两次。 </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> 现在好多人结婚两三年就离婚了，如果仔细的分析一下，就会发现：原因就是没有把自己的婚姻从第一重推入到第二重境界。 </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> 大家都知道，沸腾的水能杀灭细菌。热恋和沸水一样，也能杀灭当事人身上的缺点和不足。 </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> 那些热恋中完美无缺的白马王子和小鸟依人的姑娘，进入婚姻这杯不温不火的水之后，缺点和不足会像细菌一样重新回来。 </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> 这时你必须跨入婚姻的第二重境界，和他（她）的习惯结婚，接纳和包容他（她）的缺点和不足。否则，婚姻之花就会因为根系过浅而枯萎。 </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> 那些本来是非常恩爱的一对，就很少有人把离婚挂在嘴上。在心理上，他们已接受了对方性格中的不足。有的甚至还把对方的这种不足变成了自己的一种关怀。 </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> 这时的婚姻是甜蜜和温馨的，呈现出的最大特点是宽容和互补。 </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> 然而，婚姻的温馨并不能代表婚姻的稳固。稳固的婚姻还需要第三次升华，那就是与对方的各类亲情结婚。 </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> 也就是说，把你对他(她)一人的爱扩展到他的父母和亲友，并且在这种爱中，对婚姻有了智慧的领悟:</SPAN><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px">你的另一半不但属于你，他(她)还属于他的父母和朋友，甚至还属于他(她)自己，婚姻一旦进入这种境界，也便进入禅定的状态，想分开都非常难。 </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> 在爱情的世界里，许多男人往往误解婚姻就是娶一个女人，而忽略了还要娶过来女人自身的追求，以及女人身后的背景。 </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> </SPAN><BR><SPAN style="WIDOWS: 2; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; FLOAT: none; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); FONT-SIZE: 12pt; WORD-SPACING: 0px"> 许多女人误解婚姻就是嫁给一个男人，而不知道还要嫁给这个男人的习惯和性格，以及这个男人背后的家族。这种认识上的错误，让我们在这个世界上，看到了不少破碎的婚姻。 </SPAN><BR><SCRIPT id=ExtractFlashCode>try { if (document && document.body){ if (window.extractflash) { } else { window.extractflash = 'come'; 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